Song in my head....

Mickey
Tony Basil

You're so fine you blow my mind
Hey, Mickey
Hey, Mickey
Oh, Mickey, you're so fine
You're so fine you blow my mind
Hey, Mickey
Hey, Mickey
Oh, Mickey, you're so fine
You're so fine you blow my mind
Hey, Mickey
Hey, Mickey

You've been around all night
And that's a little long
You think you've got the right
But I think you've got it wrong
Why can't you say goodnight
So you can take me home, Mickey

'Cause when you say you will
It always means you won't
You're givin' me the chills, baby
Please, baby don't
Every night you still leave me alone, Mickey

Oh, Mickey, what a pity
You don't understand
You take me by the heart
When you take me by the hand
Oh, Mickey, you're so pretty
Can't you understand
It's guys like you, Mickey
Oh, what you do, Mickey, do, Mickey
Don't break my heart, Mickey
Hey, Mickey

Now when you take me by the hooves
Who's ever gonna know
And every time you move
I let a little more show
There's something you can use
Wo don't say no, Mickey
So come on and give it to me anyway you can
Anyway you want to do it
I'll take it like a man
Oh, please baby, please
Don't leave me in the damn, Mickey

Oh, Mickey, what a pity
You don't understand
You take me by the heart
When you take me by the hand
Oh, Mickey, you're so pretty
Can't you understand
It's guys like you, Mickey
Oh, what you do, Mickey, do, Mickey
Don't break my heart, Mickey

Oh, Mickey, you're so fine
You're so fine, you blow my mind
Hey, Mickey, hey, Mickey
Oh, Mickey, you're so fine
You're so fine, you blow my mind
Hey, Mickey, hey, Mickey
Oh, Mickey, you're so fine
You're so fine, you blow my mind
Hey, Mickey

Oh, Mickey, what a pity
You don't understand
You take me by the heart
When you take me by the hand
Oh, Mickey, you're so pretty
Can't you understand
It's guys like you, Mickey
Oh, what you do, Mickey, do, Mickey
Don't break my heart, Mickey

Oh, Mickey, what a pity
You don't understand
You take me by the heart
When you take me by the hand
Oh, Mickey, you're so pretty
Can't you understand
It's guys like you, Mickey
Oh, what you do, Mickey, do, Mickey
Don't break my heart, Mickey

Oh, Mickey, what a pity
You don't understand
You take me by the heart
When you take me by the hand
Oh, Mickey, you're so pretty
Can't you understand
It's guys like you, Mickey
Oh, what you do, Mickey, do, Mickey
Don't break my heart, Mickey

It is good to be bad....

Alright I am back on track LOL. I am tired today.... Got to go out for a few drinks and not come home on time and even when I got home not go to bed! ;0) So I am lacking sleep but feel refreshed because I got to be just a bit naughty! Didn't want to end up being too dull you know! Damn it I earned my wild & crazy reputation don't want to give up the title just yet! Well everyone have a great HUMP day! Love all around!

Thought for the day:

I Believe... That it isn't always enough, to be forgiven by others. Sometimes, you have to learn to forgive yourself.

Song in my head, my repeat on my ipod today!

Nickelback
Fight For All The Wrong Reasons

Well I wanted you
I wanted no one else
I thought it through
I got you to myself
You got off
Every time you got on to me
I got caught up
In favorable slavery
Was it wrong?
Was it wrong?

[CHORUS]
I guess it wasn't really right
I guess it wasn't meant to be
It didn't matter what they said
'Cause we were good in bed
I guess I stuck around so I could watch us fight for all the wrong reasons

No, it didn't matter what I tried
It's just a little hard to leave
When you're going down on me
I guess I stuck around so I could watch us fight for all the wrong reasons

Well you know my friends
Well they know your enemies
I'd pretend
Not to hear what they said to me
'Cause I got off
Every time you got on to me
Was it wrong
To go along with insanity?
Was it wrong?
Was it wrong?

[CHORUS]

Still being good.....

Happy Tuesday! Well I am very rested I haven't came to work tired from having too much fun for a long time!!!! The guys at work are probably wondering if I am sick! LOL Well I hope everyone's week is starting out great. Hell this week is Heaven compared to my last week!!! Last week sucked! Here is an email I received that I love. It is 25 tips for a better life, if you notice there is no number 25 so it is all up to you to make up your number 25.... Lets have fun with it comment on my blog today and tell me what your tip number 25 is! Of course I highlighted my favorites..... Love all around!

Thought for the day:

25 TIPS FOR A BETTER LIFE

1. Take a 10-30 minute walk every day. And while you walk, smile. It is the ultimate anti-depressant.

2. Sit in silence for at least 10 minutes each day. Buy a lock if you have to.

3. When you wake up in the morning complete the following statement, "My purpose is to __________ today."

4. Eat more foods that grow on trees and plants and eat less food that is manufactured in plants.

5. Drink green tea and plenty of water. Eat blueberries, wild Alaskan salmon, broccoli, almonds & walnuts.

6. Try to make at least three people smile each day.

7. Don't waste your precious energy on gossip, energy vampires, issues of the past, negative thoughts or things you cannot control. Instead invest your energy in the positive present moment.

8. Eat breakfast like a king, lunch like a prince and dinner like a college kid with a maxed out charge card.

9. Life isn't fair, but it's still good.

10. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone.

11. Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does.

12. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.

13. Make peace with your past so it won't spoil the present.

14. Don't compare your life to others. You have no idea what their journey is all about.

15. No one is in charge of your happiness except you.

16. Frame every so-called disaster with these words: "In five years, will this matter?"

17. Forgive everyone for everything.

18. What other people think of you is none of your business.

19. GOD heals EVERYTHING, in HIS time.

20. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.

21. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your friends will. Stay in touch.

22. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.

23. Each night before you go to bed complete the following statements:

I am thankful for __________. Today I accomplished _________

24. Remember that you are too blessed to be stressed

My number 25..... Love who you love with everything you have you will never get this chance back.

Song in my head...........

Buckcherry
So Far

I'll tell you how the stories told
I always wanted so much more
And way on down the road I caught a glimpse of the sunlight

Working on my favorite thing using every piece of me
Drinking, and smoking, and fucking, and making nothing
I didn't do it for money, I did it all for free
I did it all to fill the fucking hole inside of me

So far it's working out, everything's different now
So far
So far the mean machine hasn't got the best of me
So far

Think about what you know
forget about what your told
See how your story grows and let it come from your own mind
Do all your favorite things
cover it with all your dreams
Breathe it, and smoke it, and fuck it and make it something

[Pre-Chorus]

[Chorus]

I'll tell you how the stories told
I always wanted so much more
And way on down the road I caught a glimpse of the sunlight

[Pre-Chorus]

[Chorus]

It sucks being good.....

All work and no play makes Michelle a dull girl..... Well two more weekends of being out of commission and then I will be ready to play hard!!!! I hope all of us can go have a good time by then, throw some darts, drink too much and just generally be ourselves! So reminder if you don't like who I am when I am playing hard stay the HELL home!!! This weekend we have the Douglas Prom and then the following weekend is the worst one..... Rising Star pictures that will take Tim from 7 am until 9 pm or later. Poor baby!!!! He loves what he does but boy does that make for a long day! Like DD says I am ready for a little Captain in me!!!!! I hope all of you had a good weekend! I miss all of you! Love all around!

Thought for the day:

'Good friends are like stars.........You don't always see them, but you know they are always there'
'Remember yesterday, dream about tomorrow, but live today'

A repeat but this song is really in my head this week......

My Perogative
Bobby Brown


Everybody's talking all this stuff about me
Why don't they just let me live?
I don't need commission, make my own decisions
That's my prerogative
They say I'm crazy
I really don't care
That's my prerogative
They say I'm nasty
But I don't give a damn
Getting girls is how I live
Some messy questions
Why am I so real?
But they don't undersand me
I really don't know the deal about her brother
Trying hard to make it right
Not long ago
Before I win this fight, sing
Everybody's talking all this stuff about me
Why don't they just let me live?
Tell me why I don't need commission
Make my own decisions
That's my prerogative
It's my prerogative (it's my prerogative)
It's the way that I wanna live (it's my prerogative)
I can do just what I feel (it's my prerogative)
No one can tell me what to do (it's my prerogative)
'Cause what I'm doing I'm doing for you
Don't get me wrong
I'm really not souped
Ego trips is not my thing
All these strange relationships really gets me down
I see nothing wrong in spreading myself around
Everybody's talking all this stuff about me
Why don't they just let me live?
Tell me why I don't need commission
Make my own decisions
That's my prerogative
It's my prerogative (it's my prerogative)
I can do what I wanna do (it's my prerogative)
I can live my life (it's my prerogative)
And I'm doing it just for you (it's my prerogative)
Tell me, tell me why can't I live my life
Live my life without all of the things
That people say, oh
Yo, teddy kick it like this
Oh no no I can do what I wanna do
Me and you together together together together together
Everybody's talking all this stuff about me
Why don't they just let me live?
I don't need commission
Make my own decisions
That's my prerogative
Everybody's talking all this stuff about me
Why don't they just let me live?
I don't need commission
Make my own decisions
That's my prerogative
It's my prerogative
...

We have a mole....

Happy Friday everyone!!! Ready for a BITCH blog? Well today I am not mincing words so prepare yourself. If you don't like when I am mean then don't read this. This is my diary and sometimes it will be raw and not appropriate for all of you to read. My feelings shouldn't offend anyone unless you are the purpose for my pain. Those of you that know me really well know I usually don't mince words and I am a bit brash. We have a mole in our mists! I don't know who the fuck it is but it is someone that knows us and the fun we have but passes it around like it is some kind of fun shit talk!!! What the funny thing is, is the person they tell they have some of the facts mixed up and of course I am the one doing everything & anything that is naughty. Shit we all know I am the angel in the group! LOL Like I said before the things that happen in the "adult playground" (The Bar) has no bearing on anything everyone there is having the same kind of fun. I have fun at the bar this is true and when I am in an adult place I have a good time. For that very moment in time I am not a mommy or a daughter I am just someone having a good time with everyone else doing the same! I am sorry that some people feel they have to judge me or feel when I party it somehow makes me a poor mother, have low morals and am trash. Well anyone that knows me know that isn't so. I am not perfect but I am a hell of a mother, a good wife and my household is kept perfect. My children are well cared for and have anything and everything they need. My Children are also old enough for their mom to be out every other Saturday night or what night I choose to have fun. I deserve ME time. My Children come before any of my fun and they always will. Last time I checked the only one that had a right to pass judgement on me is GOD. So to whomever it is talking shit on me get a fucking LIFE. You bored? Jealous I have a good time but still have my shit together? Well FUCK OFF and find something else to talk about! If you are a GOOD & CLOSE friend talking about me with concern or worry with others is fine but if you don't matter to me then YOU CAN SHUT YOUR MOUTH. Unless you mean something to me my personal life is my personal life so get your own. Love all around to those of you that matter!

Thought for the day:

I Believe... That just because two people argue, it doesn't mean they don't love each other. And just because they don't argue, it doesn't mean they do love each other.

Song in my head....

Queen/David Bowie
Under Pressure

I know I have used this song before and even though my goal is to not repeat a song I have used I just felt this one today so here it is again.

Pressure pushing down on me
Pressing down on you no man ask for
Under pressure
That burns a building down
Splits a family in two
Puts people on streets
Bah bah bah bah bah bah
Bah bah bah bah bah bah
That's o-kay!
It's the terror of knowing
What this world is about
Watching some good friends
Screaming let me out!
Pray tomorrow takes me higher
Pressure on people
People on streets
Do do do bah bah bah bah
O-kay
Chippin' around
Kick my brains round the floor
These are the days
It never rains but it pours
People on streets
People on streets
It's the terror of knowing
What this world is about
Watching some good friends
Screaming let me out!
Pray tomorrow takes me higher higher higher
Pressure on people
People on streets
Turned away from it all
Like a blind man
Sat on a fence but it don't work
Keep coming up with love
But it's so slashed and torn
Why why why?
Love love love love
Insanity laughs under pressure we're cracking
Can't we give ourselves one more chance?
Why can't we give love that one more chance?
Why can't we give love give love give love?
Give love give love give love give love give love?
Cause love's such an old fashioned word
And love dares you to care
For people on the edge of the night
And love dares you to change our way
Of caring about ourselves
This is our last dance
This is our last dance
This is ourselves under pressure
Under pressure pressure

My stress level is through the roof!

How do working mother's handle it all? I need, I want, I have to have..... This week has been a real week from HELL. I love my girls and I wish I could give them the world but it just isn't possible. This age is so hard, the home work, the extra activities, the stress with friends and then needing to be so many places and I work. How do working mother's do it all? Of course it doesn't help that I work clear out of town and the price of gas is killing me! I think wow I can hardly wait until Randi can drive but then isn't that a whole bunch of more added stress? The worry and the cost of the vehicle, the gas, and the insurance! Boy I wish that sometimes life would give me a break!!!! As children age they get more and more expensive! So this morning I blew I mean really blew. I had my limit this morning and I was a raving lunatic. Do I feel better? Perhaps a bit. I had a good crying and screaming fit which helped me regroup and refocus. Made me late for work and made one of my daughters late for school but I think a good cry is good for the soul. So today I am praying for some weight to be lifted off my shoulders and hoping that next week will be much easier on me! Love all around....

Thought for the day.

Life is too short to wake up with regrets. So love the
People who treat you right. Forget about the one's who
Don't. Believe everything happens for a reason.. If you
Get a second chance, grab it with both hands. If it
Changes your life, let it. Nobody said life would be easy,
They just promised it would be worth it.

Song in my head......

Poison
Talk Dirty To Me

You know i never
I never seen you look so good
You never act the way you should
But i like it
And i know you like it too
The way that i want you
I gotta have you
Oh yes, i do
You know i never
I never ever stay out late
You know that i can hardly wait
Just to see you
And i know you cannot wait
Wait to see me too
I gotta touch you

Chorus:
Cause baby we'll be
At the drive-in
In the old man's ford
Behind the bushes
Till i'm screamin' for more
Down the basement
Lock the cellar door
And baby
Talk dirty to me

You know i call you
I call you on the telephone
I'm only hoping that you're home
So i can hear you
When you say those words to me
And whisper so softly
I gotta hear you

Chorus

C.c.
pick up that guitar and talk to me

Solo, chorus out

Sometimes friends fight.....

Forgiveness makes your heart mend. After I had calmed down reevaluated the situation I realized I needed to be fair and hear the other side. Even though I personally would of done things differently doesn't always mean the other person is wrong. I was told that even friends fight and you know that is true I don't know why I expect that not to be but it is. Sometimes when you have a really bad fight with a friend and you end up making up it can go two ways it can bring you closer or it can cause a wedge not soon forgotten. This situation has brought me closer to the person I had the disagreement with. I think that how genuine they are makes all the difference between the two. Some people are going to hurt you in life it is that simple but if it isn't intentional or in some cases if it was the way they apologize and the sincerity behind it makes all the difference. I do think the position of the moon or something in the air is causing havoc on my friends. I had my upset with two close friends, then DD is having a struggle, and then Launa has been disappointed by a trusted friend. Wow what is going on? DD love I am here for you when you hurt I hurt it makes me sad that you are so sad. We will work through this honey I promise things will look up. Launa honey I am always here for you too, sometimes friends hurt us and I hope that she makes it right with you if she doesn't honey she wasn't your friend to begin with. It takes character and guts to admit when you are wrong. Love all around.....

Thought for the day:

Never lower yourself to someone else's standard....

How many tears must I cry to heal the pain I feel inside?

Is there a simple way to mend a heart? How many tears or how much time does it take to mend the pain? When trust is broken it hurts so deeply. I need to be fair. Maybe it wasn't intentional maybe it wasn't the way I thought. I don't know the confusion and hurt I feel is deep and profound. My blog is MY DIARY though and I will write what I want and with my close friends I will share my hurt even when it involves another friend. That is what friends are for to talk about anything you need to talk about. I mean anything. There is nothing off limits when you need to talk to me as a friend. I know you all love me but I expect you all to always be honest with me and tell me if I am in the wrong. The pain and confusion I feel right now towards one of my friends please don't feel you need to support me by picking sides I would never expect that or do I expect you all to not be friends with the person I am hurt by or with. Trust is huge with me and it is never given easy. When I take you in as a friend I tend to trust my heart in your hands and I will give you the same. Am I always a perfect friend? Hell NO I am not. Do I want to be? YES. Just let me know if I let you down give me a chance to fix it or apologize my wrong that is all I ask as a friend. And please know I don't judge any of you, last time I checked my name wasn't God and as you all know he is the only one with that right. Love all around.

Who to let walk away.....

God determines who walks into your life....it's up to you to decide who you let walk away, who you let stay, and who you refuse to let go!"

I have been so blessed for the last few years acquiring new friends. We have quite a circle of awesome friends now. For years I didn't let people in really in the friend department I had my two childhood friends and my sister in law and that is all I relied on for advise & friendship. In the last few years I have come out of a shell sorta speak and broaden my horizons and meet some of the greatest friends. I have a hard time with trust and I think that is why I had so much reservation with new friends. Everyone that knows me knows I will NOT work with a woman. I find women to be petty, mean, and gossipy. If a woman is the boss that is the worst look out!!! I have NEVER worked for a woman that could handle the power. I know, real nice I am a woman and most of you reading this are too right! I speak truth though and I think many of you can agree. Everytime I have worked with a group of women I end up being the hated one. I think the reason being is I am brash and to the point and I usually don't mince words and most women find that offensive plus jealousy is another thing. Not that I am full of myself or anything like that but jealousy comes in play with women a lot and with me especially because I am so confident in myself and my work abilities. I love working with all men. Not that they are superior to women but I don't go home crying because of the way they treat me. They never have let me down with repeating things I have said to them or talking bad about me in general. They will say what they think of me directly to me. I do find however there is times in friendships especially with a large group of women that are all friends with one another that there will come a time when one might talk to one of the friends about another of the friends. Women when they have a problem with another woman will generally go to another friend with advice about the problem 1st before going to her friend. Is this wrong? I had never thought so until now. I always felt if you were talking to a friend that is shared between you both and you were talking in concern for the friend and if it wasn't something spiteful or hateful there was nothing wrong with it. Yes there have been times I am sure all of us had said a snide or shitty remark about one of us to another shit that is human! I am sure I have done it and I really have never claimed to be an angel and I also know I can be a real asshole at times! If somebody hasn't said a rude thing about me ever I would be concerned! HA-HA I will be the first to fess up ya I said that! And if an apology is necessary I am big enough to give one. So the topic for today..... Who to let walk away.... This is hard for me but at times you have to do it. I am the first to admit when I am hurt I can be very mean and unforgiving. I am forgiving however but at times I will forgive but really someone can lose a place in my heart by the depth they hurt me. A person can go from a close friend to someone that I will be cordial to but never extend my hand to again. I have only a very small number of these type of friends but if any of these friends that lost a place in my heart were to call me and NEED me I would still be there but on a daily basis I could not because of the loss of trust. If you are wondering why I am telling you all of this it is because I am in a huge struggle. I am at a juncture where I feel I have to let a friend go or walk away sorta speak. I shared some extremely private things with a friend about a friend that we both share. Some of the things I shared were how my friends child felt. I was needing a friend to help me discuss all the things I had concerns about with our friend we share in common. I really, really trusted this friend and I really thought she knew me well enough to know what I was telling her was private and that I needed her help on what to do. Everything I said was not out of hate or in any way shape or form in a gossipy type of talk. Instead of helping me take these concerns to our mutual friend and help a child that expressed her hurt to me my friend took my concerns to our friend with out me and told her as if I were gossiping. In turn the child that I was MOST concerned about it is hurt and mad at my daughter because of my sharing of these very private feelings and the friend I wanted to help is so bitter at me I don't see any way of fixing us. I am questioning myself over and over again did I do something to deserve this? I suppose in part I should of never asked for help from someone else but sometimes I lack strength and I really thought I was doing the right thing. My heart was in the right place so I had thought. When things like this happen I really withdraw and I have no trust in anyone. So my heart aches right now. It is never fun losing a friend or in this case friends. So if I am quiet for a few days please understand it is who I am when I hurt. Love all around.

Song in my head....

Love Is A Battlefield
Pat Benatar

We are young
Heartache to heartache we stand
No promises, no demands
Love is a battlefield

We are strong, no on can tell us we're wrong
Searchin' our hearts for so long
Both of us knowing
Love is a battlefield

You're beggin' me to go, you're makin' me stay
Why do you hurt me so bad
It would help me to know
Do I stand in your way, or am I the best thing you've had
Believe me, believe me, I can't tell you why
But I'm trapped by your love and I'm chained to your side

We are young
Heartache to heartache we stand
No promises, no demads
Love is a battlefield

We are strong, no once can tell us we're wrong
Searchin' our hearts for so long
Both of us knowing
Love is a battlefiled

We're losing control
Will you turn me away or touch me deep inside
And before this gets old, will it still feel the same
There's no way this will die
But if we get much closer, I could lose control
And if your heart surrenders, you'll need me to hold

We are young
Heartache to heartache we stand
No promises, no demands
Love is a battlefield

We are strong, no one can tell us we're wrong
Searchin' our hearts for so long
Both of us knowing
Love is a battlefield

We are young
Heartache to heartache we stand
No promises, no demands
Love is a battlefield
We are strong, no one can tell us we're wrong
Searchin' our hearts for so long
Both of us knowing
Love is a battlefiled

Friday Finally!!!

I don't know why I am excited it is Friday ha-ha I do have to work this weekend! We do have a time set for Sunday now however, it will be at noon. I hope all of you can come! It will be a good time I am sure. Well yesterday afternoon my day went sour. When I decided to be a Mother I guess I only saw the fun of it all! Boy mother hood is fun but it is a lot of HARD work. Tim and I have such pretty girls and both of them are out going have lots of friends and achieve pretty much straight A's. Other then occasional mouthing off my kids have been fairly outstanding children. I have two very different personalities when it comes to my girls but with a little over a year differences in ages they are very close. I am extremely blessed. The trouble I am having with them? Is what television, magazines, and clothing lines have done to our young girls and what they make them believe is the body they should have. All the styles for this generation is skewed for the very thin. I feel very sorry for girls that are in their teens and are more the size of women and still want to wear what society has told them is fashion or IN. My daughter Brooke is model thin and my daughter Randi is athletically built both in my eyes are very thin. Of late I have Randi wanting to spend all her hard earned money on stupid exercise equipment and complaining that she isn't as thin as Brooke. I try to explain to her there isn't a perfect size that everyone is built differently and to be confident in herself. Randi is my daughter that is always more quiet and less bold so I always have to tell her you are fine the way you are you are beautiful. Now Brooke she is more like me she thinks she is the cat's meow and has even stated on a couple occasions that her friends all copy her and everyone wants to be her. I always tell her Brookie do you need to watch Mean Girls again. LOL But she knows I love that kind of confidence because she came by it honestly from her vain mother! So imagine my surprise yesterday when I got a call from the school nurse telling me she thinks my daughter might have an eating disorder. Wow I didn't see that coming at all don't women with eating disorder's lack self confidence? So we are working on a mend and I will get her help to see herself as all of us do. But it sure makes you blame yourself and feel as a failure as a mother. Secondly I blame what we show as beautiful in United States which is sickly thin. Queen Latifa's new comercial is a good start to correct our thoughts of what we consider a right size have you seen it. It is for Jenny Craig I think. She says when people ask her what size she is she tells them I am a size healthy and she also states find your size. I like that ad and it isn't telling women there is one size for every woman not everyone can be a size 3! Well thanks for all the support I have gotten from all of you! Everything will work out I live my life by Faith and that always pulls me through! Love all around!

Thought for the day:

Is it almost Friday????

Well today my energy level is back up and I am feeling better!!! It is amazing what being good and resting does for you! Billy "O" says she doesn't know if she can make it until Sunday because she needs a little "Captain" in her! Ha-ha that's my girl! I am sure all of you will find entertainment on the weekend while I am working but damn it if you are too hung over for Sunday lunch and drinks I will whip all of ya!!!!! I hope everyone is doing well I haven't seen some of you for a while? Boobs are you still alive? Talk about me not staying in touch shit it takes two for the effort!!!!! Well anyway miss you all I hope all of you can make it Sunday I am looking forward to spending time with all my peeps! Love all around!!!

Thought for the day:

God may have created man before woman, but there
is always a rough draft before the masterpiece.

Drinks Show Your Personality. Before you order a drink in public, you should read this! Seven New York City bartenders were asked if they could 'nail' a woman's personality based on what she drinks.
Though interviewed separately, they concurred on almost all counts.
THE RESULTS:

PART A: WOMEN AND DRINKS...WHO
THEY ARE!
Drink: Beer Personality: Causal, low-maintenance; down to earth.Your Approach: Challenge her to a game of pool.

Drink : Blender Drinks Personality: Flaky, whiny, annoying; a pain in the ass.Your Approach: Avoid her, unless you want to be her cabana boy.

Drink: Mixed Drinks Personality: Older, more refined, high maintenance, has very picky taste; knows EXACTLY what she wants.Your Approach: You won't have to approach her. If she's interested, she'll send YOU a drink..................

Drink : Wine (does not include White Zinfandel) Personality: Conservative and classy; sophisticated yet giggles.Your Approach: Tell her you love to travel and spend quiet evenings with friends.

Drink: White Zinfandel Personality: Easy; thinks she is classy and sophisticated, actually, she has NO clue.Your Approach: Make her feel smarter than she is...this should be an easy target.

Drink: Shots Personality: Likes to hang with frat-boy pals and looking to get totally drunk... and naked.Your Approach: Easiest hit in the joint. You have been blessed. Nothing to do but wait, however, be careful not to make her mad!

Drink :Tequila No explanations required - everyone just KNOWS what happens there.

PART B: MAN AND DRINKS...WHO THE MEN ARE!
THEN, there is the MALE addendum -- The deal with guys is, as always, very simple and clear cut:

Domestic Beer: He's poor and wants to get laid.

Imported Beer: He likes good beer and wants to get laid .

Wine: He is hoping that the wine will give him a sophisticated image to help him get laid.?

Whiskey : He doesn't give a damn about anything but getting laid.

Tequila: He is thinking he has a chance with the toothless waitress.

White Zinfandel: He's gay

Song in my head...... Ice Ice Baby sing it Kelly baby!!!!!

Ice Ice Baby

Vanilla Ice

Yo, VIP, Let's kick it!

Ice Ice Baby, Ice Ice Baby

All right stop, Collaborate and listen

Ice is back with my brand new invention

Something grabs a hold of me tightly flow

like a harpoon daily and nightly

Will it ever stop? Yo -- I don't know

Turn off the lights and I'll glow

To the extreme I rock a mic like a vandal

Light up a stage and wax a chump like a candle.

Dance, Bum rush the speaker that booms

I'm killing your brain like a poisonous mushroom

deadly, when I play a dope melody

Anything less than the best is a felony

Love it or leave it, You better gain way

You better hit bull's eye, The kid don't play

If there was a problem, Yo, I'll solve it

Check out the hook while my DJ revolves it

Ice Ice Baby Vanilla, Ice Ice Baby Vanilla

Ice Ice Baby Vanilla, Ice Ice Baby Vanilla

Now that the party is jumping

With the bass kicked in, the Vegas are pumpin'

Quick to the point, to the point no faking

I'm cooking MCs like a pound of bacon

Burning them if you aint quick and nimble

I go crazy when I hear a cymbal

And a hi hat with a souped up tempo

I'm on a roll and it's time to go solo

Rollin' in my 5.0

With my ragtop down so my hair can blow

The girlies on standby, Waving just to say Hi

Did you stop? No -- I just drove by

Kept on pursuing to the next stop

I busted a left and I'm heading to the next block

That block was dead

Yo -- so I continued to A1A Beachfront Ave.

Girls were hot wearing less than bikinis

Rockman lovers driving Lamborghinis

Jealous 'cause I'm out geting mine

Shay with a gauge and Vanilla with a nine

Ready for the chumps on the wall

The chumps acting ill because they're so full of eight balls

Gunshots ranged out like a bell

I grabbed my nine -- All I heard were shells

Falling on the concrete real fast

Jumped in my car, slammed on the gas

Bumper to bumper the avenue's packed

I'm trying to get away before the jackers jack

Police on the scene, You know what I mean

They passed me up, confronted all the dope fiends

If there was a problem, You, I'll solve it

Check out the hook while my DJ revolves it

Ice Ice Baby Vanilla, Ice Ice Baby Vanilla

Ice Ice Baby Vanilla, Ice Ice Baby Vanilla

Take heed, 'cause I'm a lyrical poet

Miami's on the scene just in case you didn't know it

My town, that created all the bass sound

Enough to shake, kick holes in the ground

'Cause my style's like a chemical spill

Feasible rhymes that you can vision and feel

Conducted and formed, This is a hell of a concept

We make it hype and you want to step with this

Shay plays on the fade, slice like a ninja

Cut like a razor blade so fast,

Other DJs say, "damn"If my rhyme was a drug, I'd sell it by the gram

Keep my composure when it's time to get loose

Magnetized by the mic while I kick my juice

If there was a problem, Yo -- I'll solve it!

Check out the hook while Deshay revolves it.

Ice Ice Baby Vanilla, Ice Ice Baby Vanilla

Ice Ice Baby Vanilla, Ice Ice Baby Vanilla

Yo man -- Let's get out of here!

Word to your mother!

Ice Ice Baby Too cold, Ice Ice Baby Too cold Too cold

Ice Ice Baby Too cold Too cold, Ice Ice Baby Too cold Too cold

Looks Like Christmas Out There!!!!!!!

Okay where the hell is spring it is snowing like a bitch out there today! Looks just like Christmas! I am tired of this weather how about all of you? Brooke for the second time got her last running events cancelled at the track meet because of this damn weather! Well I officially have a cold. Sucks big time! This is the worst winter I have had in years I think this is about the 3rd or 4th time I have been sick this winter usually I get by with none to one time. So I am looking forward to warm weather and blue skies! This weekend Brooke took a Ruby award for her Drill Team performance! I am very proud of her this is the first time she competed. We owe a huge Thank You to Kelly what a hell of a teacher! I love her her style and her perfectionism the performance was awesome! We love you Kelly Thank you so much for all the effort you put into what you do! Theresa baby yes you can have copies of any of my pictures we will need to sit down one day go through them and send them over the computer to Walgreen's and have them printed. That is what I do! I have so many photos and I have not put them in albums for at least 10 years!!!! Holy Shit! I need to spend days and days and get those photos out of a storage tub and into albums! When to find the time! I really don't have much of that! I am really looking forward to a nice relaxing Sunday afternoon with who ever of you all are showing up at Chatter's we will discuss times later! Sean & Shelly's Grandpa just had heart surgery so please include him and the family in your prayers! Thank you! Love all around!

Thought for the day:

God determines who walks into your life....it's up to you to decidewho you let walk away, who you let stay, and who you refuse to let go."

To Good Friends!

Well I knew it would happen and it did. Standing outside most of the day on Saturday in the cold wind and lack of sleep from this weekend I am sick with a nice cold! I have always been that way I don't do well with a lack of sleep. When I was young every time I went to a slumber party I would be sick a few days afterwards. So this week I will lay low and Sunday I will enjoy a nice lunch with my friends! Speaking of friends here are some pics from Friday 2 weeks ago. Thanks for the fun, the laughter, and the friendships! Love all around.....



Theresa and DD

Burgandy and her man John

Theresa and well of course me

The naughty librarian and Theresa


Me and my Man

Theresa and her Chopper

Me & Burgandy

Burgandy & Theresa

Drunk fun!

Song in my head....

Rock of Ages
Def Leppard

Gunter glieben glauchen globen
Alright
I got something to say
Yeah, it's better to burn out
Yeah, than fade away
All right
Ow
Gonna start a fire
C'mon!Rise up! gather round
Rock this place to the ground
Burn it up let's go for broke
Watch the night go up in smoke
Rock on! (rock on!)
Drive me crazier, no serenade
No fire brigade, just pyromania, c'mon

What do you want? what do you want?
I want rock'n'roll, yes i do
Long live rock'n'roll
Oh let's go, let's strike a light
We're gonna blow like dynamite
I don't care if it takes all night
Gonna set this town alight, c'mon

What do you want? what do you want?
I want rock'n'roll, alright!
Long live rock'n'roll, oh yeah
Rock of ages, rock of ages
Still rollin', keep a-rollin'
Rock of ages, rock of ages
till rollin', rock'n'rollin'
We got the power, got the glory
Just say you need it and if you need it
Say yeah!Ooh yeahHeh heh heh heh

Now listen to me
I'm burnin', burnin', i got the fever
I know for sure, there ain't no cure
So feel it, don't fight it, go with the flow
Gimme, gimme, gimme, gimme one more for the road
What do you want? what do you want?I want rock'n'roll, you betcha
Long live rock'n'roll

Rock of ages, rock of ages
Still rollin', keep a-rollin'
Rock of ages, rock of ages
Still rollin', rock'n'rollin'
We got the power, got the glory
Just say you need it and if you need it
Say yeah!Say yeah!
We're gonna burn this damn place down, woo hoo
Down to the ground
Heh heh heh heh heh heh heh heh heh heh heh heh

No Rest For the Wicked!

Well here I am on a Monday exhausted from a weekend with not enough rest and I have the whole week ahead of me and another weekend of more work! YUCK!!! Hopefully on Sunday we can all meet for lunch at Chatter's, it would be nice to see all of you! Well Monday's are HELL for me so everyone have a great day and Love all around!

Thought for the Day:

Everything in life happens for a reason.....

Friday from HELL!

Hey all it is so busy for me today I guess it is showing me what I have to look foward to this weekend! Everyone have a great weekend. Look forward to seeing all of you soon when the dance season is over! Maybe next weekend lunch is in order on Sunday at Chatters? Love all around!

Song in my head today.....

Time After Time
Cyndi Lauper

lying in my bed i hear the clock tick,
And think of you
Caught up in circles confusion
Is nothing new
Flashback warm nightsAlmost left behindSuitcases of memories,Time afterSometimes you picture me
I'm walking too far ahead
You're calling to me, i can't hear
What you've said
Then you say go slow
I fall behind
The second hand unwinds
If you're lost you can look and you will find me
Time after time
If you fall i will catch you i'll be waiting
Time after time
If you're lost you can look and you will find me
Time after time
If you fall i will catch you i'll be waiting
Time after time
After my picture fades and darkness has
Turned to gray
Watching through windows you're wondering
If i'm ok
Secrets stolen from deep inside
The drum beats out of time
If you're lost you can look and you will find me
Time after time
If you fall i will catch you i'll be waiting
Time after time
You said go slow
I fall behind
The second hand unwinds
If you're lost you can look and you will find me
Time after time
If you fall i will catch you i'll be waiting
Time after time
If you're lost you can look and you will find me
Time after time
If you fall i will catch you i'll be waiting
Time after time
Time after time
Time after time
Time after time

Come on spring!

Nice waking up to more snow! Where the hell is spring? We are ready to party on the patio! Of course this year I am informed we must do every other weekend on Theresa's new patio. Well this weekend will be rest free for me! Not looking forward to it at all. Saturday we have track all day for Brooke (hope it is nice!) and then Saturday night I have to work for NC's prom, then Sunday Brooke has dance competition and all of this shit starts bright and early in the morning talk about me being a crabby bitch fuck I want to sleep in! After working until 1 in the morning I don't think I will be too excited to be up and to a competition by 8:30am! I am excited to see Brooke dance of course but really bad timing for when the competition is! Brooke certainly keeps me on my toes with all she is in. Just found out she made cheerleading squad! She will be so thrilled. She is an expensive child haha! Well everyone have a great day. Love all around.

Thought for the day:

Love the one your with!

Song in my head......

Heaven Can Wait
Meatloaf

Very few of you know Meatloaf is an all time favorite of mine, I wore 3 cassette tapes out from the Bat Out of Hell albumn. This song is beautiful and I think he is an amazing singer. So enjoy!

Heaven can wait
And a band of angels wrapped up in my heart
Will take me through the lonely night
Through the cold of the day
And i know I know
Heaven can wait
And all the gods come down here just to sing for me
And the melody's gonna make me fly
Without pain
Without fear
Give me all of your dreams
And let me go along on your way
Give me all of your prayers to sing
And i'll turn the night into the skylight of day
I got a taste of paradise
I'm never gonna let it slip away
I got a taste of paradise
It's all i really need to make me stay --
Just like a child again
Heaven can wait
And all i got is time until the end of time
I won't look back
I won't look back
Let the altars shine
And i know that i've been released
But i don't know to where
And nobody's gonna tell me now
And i don't really care
No no no
I got a taste of paradise
That's all i really need to make me stay
I got a taste of paradise
If i had it any sooner you know
You know i never would have run away from my home
Heaven can wait
And all i got is time until the end of time
I won't look back
I won't look back
Let the altars shine
Heaven can wait
Heaven can wait
I won't look back
I won't look back
Let the altars shine
Let the altars shine

Damn EYE!

Have you ever had something in your eye and no matter what you do you can get it out or even see what the hell it is? So I have been fucking with this eye since 8 am and now it is really a lovely red and what makeup I did have on is long gone of course only on this one fucking eye!!!!! So I know what a lovely topic for my blog but shit that is the only thing I can think about. Kelli im'd me this morning and said "where is my blog?" and I said my eye hurts!!! I did get a little sympathy out of her. ;0) So I hope you all have a lovely day and I will as soon as my eye stops bugging the shit out of me!!!!! ha-ha

Thought for the day:

Five tips for a woman....

1.. It is important that a man helps you around the house and has a job.

2.. It is important that a man makes you laugh.

3.. It is important to find a man you can count on and doesn't lie to you.

4 It is important that a man loves you and spoils you.

5. It is important that these four men don't know each other. ha-ha

Song in my head.....

Since You've Been Gone
Kelly Clarkson

Here's the thing we started off friends
It was cool but it was all pretend
Yeah yeah
Since you've been gone

You dedicated you took the time
Wasn't long till I called you mine
Yeah
Since you've been gone

And all you'd ever hear me say Is how I pictured me with you
That's all you'd ever hear me say

But since you've been gone
I can breathe for the first time
Im so movin on Yeah yeah
Thanks to you
Now I get
What I want
Since you've been gone

How can I put it? you put me on
I even fell for that stupid love song
Yeah yeah
Since you've been gone

How come I never hear you say
I just wanna be with you
I guess you never felt that way
But since you've been gone

I can breathe for the first time
Im so movin on
Yeah yeah
Thanks to you
Now I get I get what I want
Since you've been gone

You had your chance you blew it
Out of sight, out of mind
Shut your mouth I just can't take it
Again and again and again and again
Since you've been gone

I can breathe for the first time
Im so movin on Yeah yeah
Thanks to you (thanks to you)
Now I get
I get what I want
I can breathe for the first time
Im so movin onYeah yeah
Thanks to you (thanks to you)
Now I get (I get)
You should know (you should know)
That I get I get what I want
Since you've been gone
Since you've been gone
Since you've been gone

Happy Tuesday.....

Hey all how is everyone's week? Still haven't downloaded the pics yet. I will I will or should I say Tim will. Ha-ha! Love all around!

When Name Calling Isn't Swearing:

Song in my head for Billy "O"......

Flo Rida
Low

feat. T-Pain
[T-Pain]Hmm-mmm-mmm-mmm-mmm-mmm
(Talk to 'em...talk to 'em...)Hmm-mmm-mmm-mmm-mmm-mmm
(Lemme talk to 'em...)

[Chorus: T-Pain]
Shawty had them Apple Bottom jeansBoots wit the furrrr (wit the furrrr)
The whole club was lookin at herrr
She hit the flo' (she hit the flo'!), next thang you know
Shawty got LOW-low-low-low-low-low-low-low
Them baggy sweat pants and the Reeboks wit the straps (wit the straps)
She turned around and gave that big booty a smack (AYY!!)
She hit the flo' (she hit the flo'!), next thang you know
Shawty got LOW-low-low-low-low-low-low-low

[Flo Rida]
(C'mon) I ain't never seen nothin that'll make me go
this crazy all night spendin my dough
Had a million dollar vibe and a bottle to go
Them birthday cakes, they stole the show
So sexual, she was flex-able
Pro-fessional, drinkin X and oh
Hoooold up, wait a minute, do I see what I think I - WHOA
Did I thank I see shawty get LOW
Ain't the same when it's up that CLOSE
Make it rain, I'm makin it snow
Work the pole, I got the bank ROLL
I'ma say that I prefer them no clothes
I'm into that, I love women exposed
She threw it back at me, I gave her mo'
Cash ain't no problem, I know where it goes
She had them...

[Chorus]
[Flo Rida]
Heeey, shawty what I gotta do to get you home?
My jeans full of gwap and the ready for shones
Cadillacs, Maybachs for the sexy grown
Patron on the rocks that'll make you moan
"One stack - c'mon, two stacks - c'mon
hree stacks - c'mon, now that's three grand
What, you think I'm playin, baby girl?
I'm the man, I'll bend the rubber bands
"That's what I told her, her legs on my shoulder
I knew it was over, that Henny and Cola
Got me like a solider, she ready for Rover
I couldn't control her, so lucky oh me
I was just like a clo-ver
Shawty was hot like a toast-er
Sorry but I had to fold, her
Like a pornography pos-ter, she showed her...

[Chorus]
[Flo Rida]
Whooooa, (shaw-taaay), yeah she was worth the (mon-eyyy)
Lil' mama took my (caaaash), and I ain't want it (baaaack)
The way she bent that (baaaack), got her them paper (staaaacks)
Tattoo above her (craaaack), I had to handle (thaaaat)
I was on it, sexy woman
Let me showin and made me want it
Two in the mornin, I'm zonin and them Rosay bottles foamin
She wouldn't stop, made it drop
Shawty did that pop and lock
Had to break her off that gwap
Gal was fly just like my Glock

[Chorus]